I’m not single, but I have to be honest—I don’t love Valentine’s Day. There’s just too much pressure, it feels overly commercial, and let’s be real, it can be a tough reminder for some of my friends and family who are single. I know it can make them feel sad, isolated, or as if they’re somehow “missing out” on love.
But the truth is, Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about romantic relationships—it can be a day to celebrate all kinds of love, including the love we give ourselves and share with our friends, pets and life in general.
Whether you’re flying solo or just prefer to skip the romantic expectations, there’s plenty of love to go around—and it starts with YOU! So, grab your favorite snacks, curl up with a cozy blanket, and gather your closest friends because Valentine’s Day is about celebrating love in all its forms, especially the love you have for yourself and your amazing squad.
1. Self-Love Day: Pamper Yourself Like a Queen
Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to treat yourself to a little extra TLC. No need for fancy reservations or elaborate plans—just pamper yourself at home. Think bubble baths, face masks, soft candles, and maybe even some rose petals scattered around (yes, seriously). Put on your favorite playlist, grab your favorite comfort food, and relax like you're at a five-star resort. You don’t need a partner to feel fabulous—you’ve already got everything you need within yourself! Yes have a date with yourself.
2. Galentine’s or Broentine’s with Your Besties
**Galentine's Day, celebrated on February 13th, honours female friendship originates from the words "gal",
**Palentine's Day is celebrated on February 13th, honours friendships and other form of platonic love originates from the words "pal",
Why settle for just one date when you’ve got a whole squad ready to celebrate you? Galentine’s Day (or Broentine’s, if that’s more your vibe) is all about celebrating friendship in the best way possible. Whether it’s a cozy night in with games, movies, or DIY pizza, this is the time to let loose and have fun with the people who get you. Share stories, laugh until your sides hurt, and indulge in your favorite snacks. These are the moments that remind you how special it is to be surrounded by a supportive, loving crew.
3. Treat Yourself to a Solo Adventure
You don’t need a plus-one to explore the world—sometimes the best company is your own. Plan a solo date to do whatever feels right in the moment. Maybe it’s a leisurely walk through the park, a visit to a museum, or an afternoon sipping coffee at your favorite café. No one else has to decide where to go or what to do. This is your time to make the day completely yours. After all, who knows you better than YOU?
4. Indulge in a Little ‘Me Time’
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to reconnect with yourself and indulge in activities that bring you joy. Is there a book you’ve been dying to dive into? A Netflix series you’ve been putting off? Or maybe there’s a hobby you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t had the time for? Today, there are no distractions—just pure relaxation and fun doing what makes you happy. This is all about embracing what brings you peace.
5. Spread the Love with Random Acts of Kindness
Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romantic gestures—it’s about kindness and love in all its forms. Why not take the opportunity to send a sweet message to a friend, family member, or colleague? A little note of appreciation or an unexpected kind gesture can make someone’s day and remind them that they’re loved. Random acts of kindness—no matter how small—can spread joy and positivity in unexpected ways.
6. Reflect on Your Own Journey
Valentine’s Day is also a great time to reflect on how far you’ve come. Take a moment to appreciate your growth, your accomplishments, and the beautiful person you’ve become. Whether it's overcoming challenges, learning new things, or simply becoming more comfortable in your own skin, it’s important to recognize how much you’ve grown. You’ve been your own biggest supporter, and there’s no better day to acknowledge that.
Conclusion: Love Yourself First 💖
This Valentine’s Day, let’s make one thing clear: you are already enough. Whether you’re spending the day with friends, enjoying a solo adventure, or pampering yourself with self-care, the most important relationship you can have is the one with yourself. Love isn’t just about romantic gestures—it’s about feeling cherished, valued, and celebrated. So, here’s to you, your wonderful friends, and all the love you’ve got to give.
Here are a couple of personal tips from me: First, consider buying flowers on February 15th when they’re often half-price. Also, try avoiding restaurants—they tend to be crowded with couples, filled with plastic heart-themed decor, and the prices are usually much higher. And if you’re not feeling the whole Valentine’s vibe, don’t hesitate to skip it altogether. Follow your heart and do what feels right for you!
Happy Valentine’s Day to the most important person in your life—YOU! 🌹✨
Your brain will thank you.
Mette Theilmann Founder of HerEdge Cote d’Azur Club
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